I didn't tell my girlfriend immediately, but it just happened on our second date that she had just seen a show about cross dresser, which obviously interested her since she brought it up and wanted to talk about it. But then she wanted to know if I had ever cross dressed and if I had if I enjoyed it or not. Well I admitted I had and yes I enjoyed it, she wanted to know all about it. On our next date my girlfriend brought up the subject again and that is when she found out I was wearing panties under my boy clothes and that excited her. She made me promise to crossdress for her on our next date, which I did ... And after that she just kept encouraging me to go a little further, then a little further. Now we are married and where she enjoys my femme side, I do too.
I wouldn't tell a potential girlfriend right away that you dig wearing ladies underwear, and on those first few dates before you tell her, if sex is a possibility, perhaps you should try wearing boxers. You NEVER know how someone is going to react, it may send her running for the hills before she even gets a chance to know.
You need to tell her this Cross dressers are not gay or transsexual they are straight heterosexual men who do it for enjoyment and are happy with their body.
Not the first date, but I would tell her and explain why you wear panties. At the right time. First date might send mixed messages you want sex. The first date has a lot going and don't destroy it. When you do let her know be able to back what you feel.
If your BF Wears Panties,I would call my Friends over and Have them help me Like start with shower and shaving legs,underarms,arms, trim crotch!! :) .Then I would Give him new panties and bra to wear ,Plus girls Levis,Cimsole,Blose,Nice Flat shoes probably white or Black.Then I would take him to my favorite beauty Salon to have his hair done like a Chick.Then I would put nice Earings on him.Then take nice picture of him all dolled up and keep Photo for Enforcement.Then me and my Girlfriends would have a nice Welcome girl party (Feminety style).Maybe thats the way to cure any BF who is a Panty Wearer!!!!((((((((((((((LOL)))))))))))).Maybe that answers your Question?.
Of course you should tell her! She has a right to know what she is getting into. Not many girls like that sort of thing. I don't know of any girls that like it. Why should they? I mean, guys aren't supposed to wear panties!
