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I'm 15 and I've been dating a guy for 4 years, do you think it will last? or are we too young?

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Yin And Yang answered

Most people will tell you it's not likely. However I am here to tell you yes it can happen. I have been with my husband since we were 16. Nobody ever thought we would make it and most were not shy in telling us so. But it has been 21 years and neither of us are going anywhere. He is my Yang to my Yin. Lol! We have proven all of them wrong. And the funny thing is.... Is that MOST of them didn't last in OUR lives! We are better off without them. But I digress. I want to encourage you that yes it CAN happen even though the odds are against you. Just prepare both of your hearts for "growing pains" as each of you grow up and mature. This is also the stage most separate because once you guys discover who you both are individually a lot of times the couple has gone separate ways. But couple do survive. Good luck to the both of you.

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pia carter commented
aww, god bless you both :) thank you so much. i really appreciate this. all my friends kept telling me it wont last since the day it all started. they said there's no such thing as 'forever' and that we'll break up eventually. they've been planting doubts in my head for the past four years and telling me how were too young to make these decisions and that i should break up now instead of bearing a heartbreak later, and although he tells me he sees a future with me all the time and tries his best to make me overcome and ignore them sometimes they get the best of me. thank you again this is really supportive! x
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Woof Woofy answered

It can happen, my friend's oldest sister started dating her boyfriend when she was 11, he was 17.. She's now 27 and he's 33- got married a couple of years ago, and had their first baby not long ago.

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