Anonymous

Why are people so mean to me? I'm nice to them but all people ever do to me is call me ugly and insult things about me and it's making me feel like no one likes me at all and I exist for no reason. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

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Ray Dart answered

Hey, I'm, here (and not hiding behind "anonymous"). I'm prepared to bet that I have suffered more insults, bad manners and rudeness than you will ever have to deal with.

"What does not kill you, makes you stronger."

You have many years of life left in front of you, enjoy them and ignore the insults.

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Angela Anthony
Angela Anthony commented
Well stated!
Ren U.
Ren U. commented
i was actually afraid to log back into my account to find even more insults at the time i posted this, but am glad that theres nothing but positive comments. although im a bit taken aback by the whole "ive suffered worst" thing. sometimes people are more sensitive, or so many little things happen that once they happen again it causes more than you think it would. my point is, it comes off as you trying to one-up me. im not going to go on about how ive suffered worse than you, though, because thatd just make me a hypocrite.. but i still do appreciate your comment. i try my best to ignore the insults and am trying to get better at it.
Virginia Lou Profile
Virginia Lou answered

Dear Anonymous,

This will be your third answer, and I will tell you the first two are excellent.

What I will add is this:

The people who are saying that to you...they are not talking about you, what they are doing is telling you about themselves.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Perhaps it's time to rethink who you choose to surround yourself with. 

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Ren U.
Ren U. commented
ive actually cut off contact with basically everyone in my school. it just took me a while to realize how terrible everyone around me actually was, although i do feel lonely at times because i kind of isolate myself from everyone now

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