What are your thoughts about having sex with a person that your friend has also slept with in the past? My friend is ok with it and he has moved on from her (he's actually the one hooking her and I up.) She's down with it too


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Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

What difference, at this point does it make? 

Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

If you have to ask ... You shouldn't be in that type of relationship, because you most likely aren't mature enough to take responsibility for the possible consequences.

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idk idk
idk idk commented
I didn't have to ask. I've decided to take it slow with her and get to know her a lot more. I actually like her. Thanks for your input though.
Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

Millions and millions are OK with having sex with each others  mates and ex-mates. That being said, if all of you are in  agreement with having sex with each other that's your right. 

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Considering there are no emotional obligations bewtween the ex's there is no reason to be concerned about "hooking up" .. If the original lovers did not cultivate a relationship because they were nota match why would "friends" when have a prob with it ? Having sex with someone does not "Mark" them as territory.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Not everyone has one relationship for life.

Sexual intimacy is not an unusual occurrence in today's culture. (Probably no more frequent now than in previous eras, but with more overt "acceptance.")

I had a very minimal number (low single digits) when I was single over 38 years ago.  I have warm feelings for those women---although I very seldom think about them---and I hope their lives have turned out very well.

As long as the 3 of you don't currently hang around together. It's entirely up to you.  Otherwise, the more frequently you are together, the more awkward it may become.

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

I think you are playing with fire. I am sure there are many other girls out there!

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Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
In my many many years, I've come to sadly realize many millions love drama and having unprotected sex with many others, ex's, married people and with each others friends😖.

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