If a Man or Woman complain each day, all day about their lot in life being bad or they're unhappy, will they're situation get better within the next 30 days or less?
No!
Nope. Wallowing in self pity doesn't do anyone any good.
No. It will actually get worse. No one will want to be around you, or want to help you if all you are going to do is whine.
Spending time complaining about your own choices is counter productive. Happiness is more of a choice than you realize.
It seems the jury is unanimous on this one, Jan.
I suggest the biggest step toward being successful is to cultivate the attitude that you can be successful. Self-fulfilling prophesy.