NO WAY ! Why should they put that burden on the parents? Maybe it's just me but I sure don't feel that's right. If they're going to get married then they should work and be responsible enough to help their parents out with the bills.
Should a man or woman bring their live-in boyfriend or girlfriend to their parents house to live for three or four years and they're not paying bills and simply telling the parents that they're saving money to someday get married?
This is wrong! They need to learn to be on their own! At least if they want to share the house then they must work and help the parents with bills and other payments as Rooster mentioned, and save at the same time!
If they be my children! I'll do them a favor, i'll give them an amount of money and will kick them out of my house, they need to learn how to carry themselves and face ups an downs and hurricanes. I'll look out for them from behind but they need to know this is their life so it's benefit and damage.
I can't pay for their love! You fallen in love, you want to marry, go out there and be responsible, work, pay your bills and pay your "together" life and save as well! My opinion is also "Saving" money is valuable when you save it in between of lots of depth and payments.
The job of parents is to teach their kids how the real world works and how to live in it.
Dr Phil has a list somewhere online about what parents should do as parents.
I don't think that would pass muster with him.
Never heard of that