Which is worse: breaking up with somebody, or being dumped?

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Zack -  Mr. GenXer Profile

Being dumped by your wife is the worst.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Being dumped by someone you love, that doesn't love you.

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

I'll have to say being dumped. I have been on both ends and while dumping someone is not pleasant, you know that is the right thing and you saw it coming. Being dumped you don't always see it coming.

SuperFly Original Profile

I'd say dumped but the situation highly depends. For instance, if you both were civil and had been thinking about separating for a while then being dumped in the right words wouldn't be as hurtful. But In a sporadic way the dump position always gets 1st place in my book!

Depends on the relationship.

Megan goodgirl Profile
Megan goodgirl answered

being dumped.

Jaimie  JT Profile
Jaimie JT answered

I've in all  honesty never been dumped... I've lost someone I loved though to something else. And I've left everyone else cos they bore me after awhile ., I've been told that that is  someting that's wrong with me that I've never put myself in a position to be abandoned or " dumped"  and I've always been the one who leaves...I have an ability to detach emotionally:) and that's unhealthy ... I've been in theropy since january .., and I guess all I ever needed was to be dumped and all my problems would have been solved ...BAM !!? No bam 😡... Idiot .., I'm not listening to that crap anymore, 

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