Maybe, maybe.,the boys are scared that you will reject them or they are deep inside really like and just to shy to say.
Why can't I get a boyfriend? I'm outgoing, I try and be nice to everyone, I cheer, have lots of friends, I'm well liked. All my guy friends say I'm pretty, hot, etc. my girl friends say I'm intimidating, I don't get what that means...
Here is the definition of intimidating from
to make timid; fill with fear.deter from some action by inducing fear
It takes a considerable amount of time for us men (and women) to get to the point where we are confident with what we are.
You sound like you are pretty much a high school boy's dream girl, one he would really enjoy knowing and, frankly, being seen with.
But, without the confidence that we as as good at being men as we think you are at being female, we hesitate because we fear that you will find us wanting and therefore ultimately unworthy.
This is about us, not you. If we (and the girls also) find you intimidating, it is because we lack sufficient confidence.
Try to be patient. It will not be this way forever.
The "Heather Syndrome"
In my teenaged youth there was a girl, Heather. She was stunning, absolutely gorgeous in every way. Beautiful personality too.
She struggled to get boyfriends.
Either people assumed that someone that perfect had to already have a real hunk of a boyfriend, or they assumed that she was just "out of their league".
I met her once in later life. Still gorgeous, with a rather glammy job too, still had no regular feller, probably still for the same reason.
I'm not suggesting that applies to you, I don't know you, but it is an example of the way things sometimes work.
Are you looking in the right places? Or you rejecting those that have less income? Old car? Not super handsome?
Are your looks what you tell the man first.
You just haven't met the right guy for you .. Or you could be just too young or trying too hard. You sound a bit conceited ... Which isn't as much intimidating as it is just off-putting.
Maybe youre just trying to force the whole BF thing to happen so back off a bit and be patient and let things happen when they happen Ever hear of the saying that " A watched pot never boils"?? Same thing here as long as you want things to happen your way, they never will so go on with your life and forget the boys and see what happens but not everything just happens overnight so you will still have to be patient. Good luck
Your time is coming.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
Your worth more then that.
It's interesting how the more we concentrate
on other things and let it go the faster it happens.