How have you been able to deal with betrayal constructively?


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Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

I cried, prayed and moved on. That was years ago. I have very very very limited contact with people. Its been years since someone has betrayed me.

I'll talk to you, but I'm limited what I say to you. If I message you or post it here. You can't betray me.

Tinkerbell St. Basil Profile

I cut them out of my life, completely! No looking back and no second chances. Life is too short to waste a moment of your time with people who do not have your best interest. There are too many good people out there that you can share your time with, rather than someone who has already proven who they really are.

dragonfly forty-six Profile

By learning something from it.

otis campbell Profile
otis campbell answered

By divorcing my sorry wife, 

Rath Keale Profile
Rath Keale answered

Check the facts first.  Maybe part of your information is wrong.

I would not make a big fuss, or tell them off, or retaliate in any way.  Instead, I would create a solid distance and have a gracious way of saying 'no' ready should they wish to visit.  Distance without the drama is the mature way to learn a lesson without you doing anything wrong.

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