Usually if it by surprise it is synonymous with betrayal.
If you can see it coming, you've departed from the relationship you have had and set it to one that is adversarial and in expectation of malfeasance.
Have you ever had to deal with a betrayal you never saw coming?
Yes my wife now ex wife
Yes. I have never trusted people, except for one. I was always paranoid about making friends because I thought many of them were making fun of me by pretending to like me... Except for this friend. I couldn't doubt her. But then she dumped our friendship from out of the blue.
My dead mom, sister, and oldest brother.
Family Loyalty was only in my mind😢.
Not really ! I've always been good at reading people and how they act and talk. Been betrayed before but I knew it was coming and still do !
Yeah my best friend of five years decided to bully me into the point where I wanted to kill myself.