The last year I have dated a guy on and off, we have had sex 3 times, one time we went 2 rounds, 3 days ago we stoped dating again and tonight we had sex again I asked him if he was playing me and he said he loves me and kissed me, is he playing me?

Stop having sex with him and see how long he sticks around. If he stays without the sex than maybe you're not being played. If he leaves, then you have your answer.

It sounds like it. You are worth more than that, when you find someone else hold off on the sex and see if they really like you.

The short answer is yes he is playing you.  If he were interested seriously he would want to be with you, care about you and your welfare but he's not is he, respect you as a person.

He's using you for sex.  Kick his sorry butt out of the door and never speak to him again.  Oh and learn something from this, it's a hard lesson but if you demand respect then you'll get it.

The truth here is yes he is using you as boys only live for 3 things; eat, sleep and sex.  Boys will lie to achieve any of the three so chances are if he knows he can get what he wants from you easily, he will keep coming back, tell you what you want to hear and get what he wants. Unfortunately, you don't mean as much to him personally as you would probably like so you are a means to an end here. Time to break off all contact with him and find someone who is interested in you and wont put sex as a high priority in the relationship and don't look back unless you plan on going there.  Good luck