It's not meeting your biological father that may be the issue, it is usually lack of fathering by whoever was there -meaning step fathers too, or lack of father figure. You know you have a problem, so I suggest counseling.
You don't want to live a life or regret being with one guy after another. That does nothing but make you feel worse.. They don't love you. Find a way to love yourself so you're not looking for it anywhere and everywhere. Find out what your gifts and strengths are and indulge in those. Try artwork, painting, music, writing, volunteering, -there are so many ways to keep yourself busy and away from men who will just take advantage of you.
That will give you even more problems than you have now. Start making a plan to keep yourself busy and learn who you are.