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i have never met my biological father and i have been in one love relationship after another craving for love. after realizing i have intense daddy issues i want to stay single as long as possible but i don't know how?

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Cindy  Lou Profile
Cindy Lou answered

It's not meeting your biological father that may be the issue, it is usually lack of fathering by whoever was there -meaning step fathers too, or lack of father figure. You know you have a problem,  so I suggest counseling.

You don't want to live a life or regret being with one guy after another. That does nothing but make you feel worse.. They don't love you. Find a way to love yourself so you're not looking for it anywhere and everywhere. Find out what your gifts and strengths are and indulge in those. Try artwork, painting, music, writing, volunteering, -there are so many ways to keep yourself busy and away from men who will just take advantage of you.

That will give you even more problems than you have now. Start making a plan to keep yourself busy and learn who you are.

otis campbell Profile
otis campbell answered

Well i tried to raise a girl that i was not the biological father when she turned 14 she told me she dont have to do anything i say. I told her mother fine it saves me money i divorced her mother a year later. You are struggling to find something you may never find or dont want to find. Seek a therapist and move on with your life

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

As others have said, seek counseling. I agree you should stay out of a relationship for now, but get the couseling and then try again. My dad wassn't around much when I was growing up. I had a few bad relationships and one that ripped my heart out. After that I took over a year off from dating and spent the time soul searching. I came out the otherside much stronger and in a better frame of mind and soul. A few years later I met my husband and my life is good. We have been married for 19 years.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

You may well have "daddy" issues, and if so, they are likely to tag along with you for the rest of your life until you take the time to deal with them.

Here's a website that may be of use to you:  http://www.vice.com/read/we-asked-three-experts-how-to-deal-with-our-daddy-issues-236

Probably by far your best bet is to seek assistance through counseling.

Best of luck.

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