He says he doesn't want a relationship, yet doesn't want me seeing anyone else. When questioned, he says "relax & see what happens." What's up?
I'll disagree with Bikergirl ... Exclusive dating defeats the entire point of dating, which is to get to know as many personality types as possible in a "pre-relationship" setting - so that you can decide which type you eventually want to marry.
What this guy wants is to control your relationship status - without giving up his freedom.
Dump him. NOW.
It's called exclusive dating .. A smart thing to do. He wants to get to know you better before he commits to a "relationship". I wish more people would do it instead of jumping into a committed relationship far too soon .