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Why do guys always treat their ex and girlfriend the same way? Give them the same amount of privileges? For once,why can't a guy just treat a woman different from the others, because she is more important or more special to him?

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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

Learn to not generalize.

Why your world is too small like this ? Regardless of how old are you, how many people you think you could ever meet ? 10,50.70.100.1000 people ? How about other billions that you never met ?

Maybe you just choosing the wrong ways of your life, looking for wrong guys in a wrong places. Maybe you're not reasonable and paranoid already and you're not understanding his reasoning. Or maybe you came a victim of a jerk, now trying to put the whole world in the same color to cure your feelings, maybe you're just jealous due reasons. And other possibilities. Which one is it ?

Just to let you know. I never had a ex. I never been into dating. I never needed relationship like a sick person who need his medicines. I had more important things to do. But i fell in love once and that love is continuing. I'm in relationship since 2012. I love my girlfriend so much, she's my queen, my angel, she's so precious and important to me, she rocks my world, i literally worship her. She's symbol of perfection and beauty. I wouldn't even change piece of her hair with any girl on this planet. She owns me.

Am i treating different enough ?

Soul Fly Profile
Soul Fly answered

Besides generalizing here, something else is important.

If you don't want to be treated like that then the best thing to do is understand the tell-tale signs and make better decisions in who you get involved with moving forward.

I don't understand what you mean by privileges.

Good luck to you, I hope you meet someone who will treat as well as you treat them.

Ty Hibb Profile
Ty Hibb answered

It might be good to widen your research to include a greater number of men than you are using. My experience has been just the opposite.

Stacey Dinozzo Profile
Stacey Dinozzo answered

1 guy or some guys shouldn't judge all men on Earth. Stand proud of who you are if you're the girlfriend, because there's a reason why you're with him and why they're his ex. Stand your ground and be confident.

For an example, I don't get jealous if me & my husband run into one of his exs. Due to the fact that I know he's still friends with some that they left on good terms, and for me which i still have a few of my exs that are also now good friends of mine.

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