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My older brother has been "stealing" my friends he always hangs with them when they come to hang with me recently my friends have been leaving me out and playing with my brother. Please I need my friends back?

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If your friends are turning away from you because they think he's cooler, try to make better friends. Don't act tense or mean around these "former" friends, but take note that they're not very loyal.

If they're harmlessly just "forgetting" about you, create stronger relationships with them before introducing them to your bro. Invite them to hang out anywhere (movies, park, concert, fast food). Be active in your friendship.

Are they choosing him over you? Or does it look like he's pressuring them into following him?


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star gazing commented
Is he usually mean? Hang out with your friends as much as you can at the party, even if they're spending time with him. Don't get upset (but also don't try to laugh it off; your friends/bro will get the idea that you're okay with it) if he teases you in front of your friends.
Maybe you could confront him about it (if you know he won't KILL you later, lol). Just straight up ask him "why are you being mean so suddenly?"
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Kai Chen commented
Thank you soo... much! I will use the advice at my party! If I have anymore problems with him I know who to go to for advice!... You! And Blurt-it. No he's SOMETIMES mean. Not ALWAYS. Thx
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star gazing commented
yay hope it works out for you ヽ(゜∇゜)ノ
sometimes it's better for you to confront him about it..remember your GOOD friends won't leave you, especially when you're being a good friend back :)

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