You're feeling left out cause he talks online to friends in chat. You need to make him aware that he needs pay attention to you and you're basically tired of feeling neglected by him. You need to monitor how long he spends time with you compare to his online friends.
I'll tell ya a trick! Hide your husbands gadget on which he chats, then when he panics, calm him down and tell him your problem expressing your feelings nicely! And all will be good!
You have to decide here whether you're better off with or without him and go from there. Ignoring a spouse or mate usually signals an underlining problem within the marriage and there always is 2 sides to every story. But in this case, if your husband feels better talking online than to you, this tells me that your marriage is in serious trouble and may need professional counselling to fix but for that to work, both must want the marriage to work and both must be willing to do whatever it takes to get there. So now you have some thinking to do, and good luck and Merry Christmas.
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