Does my crush like me? He teases me playfully and stares at me and smiles around me and tells jokes and always looks to see if I'm laughing. He also corners me with another boy and asks who I like better, does he like me?


2 Answers

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Pretty good chance here he does but sounds kinda immature when cornering you and making you answer who you like, but its your life here so you do what you want and with your Parents permission but personally, I think you need to find a boy that is a little more mature here.  Good luck and Merry Christmas

Sara Lewis Profile
Sara Lewis answered

From what you've described- teasing, staring at you, smiling, etc. It certainly sounds as though he likes you!

However... It can be dangerous to take these things for granted, because if the attention he's giving you suddenly stops, or he starts doing the same thing to other girls, you leave yourself open to getting hurt.

My advice - if you really like him (and suspect he feels the same) talk to him about it. You don't have ask him out right away if you don't feel comfortable (although if I were you, I'd say you probably have nothing to lose by doing that!), but try to lead the conversation to a place that gives him the opportunity to tell you how he feels.

If he is shy, or doesn't realise that you like him, he might not be ready to make a move, so give him a bit of a push! If he doesn't feel the same, it's really no big deal. It might be a little awkward between you for a few days, but it'll pass real quick, and then, at least you'll know. Wondering what someone is thinking can drive you mad! I'd always much rather know for sure.

Answer Question