Sometimes while getting dressed in the locker room I can't help but to look at the other girls changing. I don't do this on purpose, and try to look away. Is this normal?


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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Totally normal. Boys do it too. Just young people curious about other peoples bodies.

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Marta Catalano answered

Yes, it is absolutely normal. I think it has loads to do with curiosity, space available and self-esteem.

Even if they're girls, it is normal to feel a bit of curiosity and you might find yourself looking at their body accidentally. It might be because you want to see how other people look like, if they can possibly have the same features as you do or how they take care differently of their own body.

It might also be because the space is actually quite small so, no matter where you turn, you always see someone.

Ultimately, it might be because you (consciously or unconsciously) want to compare yourself to the other girls, so you look at them as a model of comparison to see if you have a "better" body or a "worse" body than them (there's no such thing like "better or "worse" here, bodies are just different!).

So, I wouldn't worry at all. It's completely fine and it's human and there's nothing wrong with it. Hope this helps! (:

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Riaz Firfirey answered

Women generally tend to be closer and more touchy touchy feely feely, women are more into vanity so you look to compare.

Maybe you think one of the girls has a great set of legs or chest, its normal. 

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