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Asked my bf at uni to visits over Easter, said he'd get time off work. Asked again just before Easter said he isn't coming, told him it was my birthday and wanted him there and he promised he would try anything to come. He hasn't. Is this forgivable?

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Sara Jully answered

He sounds like he is messing you around babe.

I would only forgive him if he does something to EARN your forgiveness. Is he ready to do that?

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Anonymous
Anonymous commented
I'm not sure what to do, we talked about him not coming but didn't acknowledge my birthday. I want to forgive him, he's trying to make it up to me, but no, I don't feel he's doing any where near to try to enough to earn my forgiveness. Feel like it's just that he doesn't care enough. Thank you for helping me see.
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bezzi cans , hey, answered

Maybe... just saying, if he had a reasonable reason, like if he went to a funeral, or if somone in his family was getting married... 

If not, I wouldn't forgive him.

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tyler Haworth
tyler Haworth commented
I don't blame you after all it WAS your BIRTHDAY 1 day of the year I would definitely come even if I couldn't ask my parents to drive I'd take my bike I'd go the extra mile
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bezzi cans commented
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