He sounds like he is messing you around babe.
I would only forgive him if he does something to EARN your forgiveness. Is he ready to do that?
Asked my bf at uni to visits over Easter, said he'd get time off work. Asked again just before Easter said he isn't coming, told him it was my birthday and wanted him there and he promised he would try anything to come. He hasn't. Is this forgivable?
Maybe... just saying, if he had a reasonable reason, like if he went to a funeral, or if somone in his family was getting married...
If not, I wouldn't forgive him.