For me love is a choice , love includes many big hard decisions in life sometimes , it could mean having a simple life , or a secretive love life without your parents knowing , but honestly I think love is a choice , its a decision we all make , whether we do something for the guy/girl we love , maybe don't talk to them again because maybe we think it would be best for them to not have us in their lives to let them be happy , or try to get them to love you again , love really depends theres many types of love , love that we have to be patient and fight for , love that we have to not be with that person anymore or love that means not being with them because it is what will make life easier and happier for them... Theres many love stories that people don't really consider love as in a guy leaving his sweetheart due to a car crash leaving her forgetting him totally like ' the vow' , people ask what love is , is it meant to be easy or hard is it meant to be simple or difficult , should it hurt or not , theres so much to love , pain , happiness etc. But honestly when we find that person we love we will feel it we will know its love and it really is choice to be loved and to love that's one decision and choice we need to make ...