Why are people against gay marriage? I respect everyone's opinion, I'm just curious as I don't understand why anyone would be against it.

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John McCann Profile
John McCann answered

Look under that rock and you will se religion staring back at you. Abrahamic religion that is.

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Adila Adila
Adila Adila commented
Hmmm I'm a muslim and my religion doesn't except homosexuality but I have nothing against Gays as the 'Quran' teaches us to respect people's decisions whether you agree with them or not. So yeah I don't understand why people are protesting about it all etc blah blah , ...

I understand people finding it disgusting but it's not as if they're doing anything in public. I don't agree with it but that doesn't mean I bad mouth homosexuals or I call them names. At the end of the day it has nothing to do with us.

And @Sofia I have many friends who are Atheist and none of them have anything against Gay people so your friends can't be committed atheists if they are having an issue with homosexual people.

By the way....the boyband I love (Westlife) yeh one of them is Gay. 8) So no hate there!!!
Evan Andle
Evan Andle commented
I predict: As the world's population grows at the current astronomical rate, 'group or crowd think' tendencies will shift towards homosexuality as being much more acceptable. As one of nature's population control tactics. And eventually, senior citizens who wish to die will be allowed to commit suicide in a controlled environment. Even revered as 'doing the morally correct thing.'
John McCann
John McCann commented
@ Evan Andle

" I predict: As the world's population grows at the current astronomical rate, 'group or crowd think' tendencies will shift towards homosexuality as being much more acceptable. "

Assuming religion losses it's power or has one of it's forced mind changing events.
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Ray Dart answered

I'm probably going to make an enemy or two here. You have to define what "marriage" is, and why the word "marriage" is so important  to some people. For a thousand years, "marriage" was the union between a man and a woman. That is a lot of tradition, custom and history.  If two people of the same sex wish to commit to a long-term relationship, that is good, but it IS new and old fogeys like me find it hard to see it as marriage (with all that that entails in a mixed-sex relationship).

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John McCann
John McCann commented
Because words have meanings regardless of what relativists will tell you and that history and tradition is too well combined with religious history and tradition, at least among Abrahamic religions, to not be suspect.
Adila Adila
Adila Adila commented
why do homosexuals want to get married anyway? You love each other so leave it at that....don't bring religion into it because religion will never except it. (well it might but then religion will be pointless) .

If you love someone just be with them...in 20 years time not even straight people will bother with marriage.
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Wait til it comes to the first gay divorce and the courts have to figure out who is who or what in the marriage and is a marriage legally a marriage if it hasn't truly been consummated by Bible definition.
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angie zhang answered

hey and personally i agree with you , what is so bad gay marriage ? , many people now are eventually accepting gay marriage and some are beginning to come out about being homosexual. I think the fact many people dont agree with it is the fact , of traditional reasons , and religions , i am christian yet i am for gay rights , i think that it is fine to be homosexual , this doesnt change the person its just a part of them . Yet many religions are against it as they think it is sinful and not right . I think that although people may not personally like gays but i think that they should respect them for their choice.

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Anonymous commented
Look at the number of christians that are committing adultery right now. are they more holy in gods eyes then being gay.
how about everytime you curse and use the lords name in vain, you should not expect everyone to be a carbon copy of you and your knowledge of some commandment that god forgot to right.
the ten comandents do not say God says no gay folks aloud.
angie zhang
angie zhang commented
That's because there really is no ' ACTUAL' Christian , people who are Christian say they are but honestly they aren't , naming yourself as one doesn't mean you are one .All Christians are different , they think this is wrong or this is right , when other Christians think it is wrong , like I read a book about this girl in a cult that was Christian but they were doing things even non-Christians would disagree and dislike.
Adila Adila
Adila Adila commented
Just because religion says its wrong doesn't mean we're not respecting gay people. In Islam being Gay is very sinful. If a muslim wants to be gay he can...but he will no longer remain a muslim. End of.

But I believe being Gay is wrong but I don't hate gay people, I don't tell them it's wrong, I would always respect their choice because its their life and they can do what they want.

Islam teaches Muslims to know being Gay is wrong yet RESPECT those who are, because those people who abuse gay people will be getting into more sin themselves for judging others.

There....that is what we are 'taught' however some weirdo's decide to be extreme and hate.
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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Its not exactly that most don't accept it as its the fact that we are being forced to accept it whether we agree or not. Its that forcing of it upon us that people hate and by Nature will usually rebel against it

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Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Jenny that's not it all and youre not even close and God has already told us what he wants in the Bible. What the Gays and Lesbians do behind closed doors is their business so don't shove it down our throats because as Christains, most of refuse to accept this as a norm but we don't feel any better than them, we just know what is morally wrong and right
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
this god you speck of approves of cold blooded murders, pediphiles, you really believe a two thousand year old book that has been reinterpeted over and over.
you must love the Grimes fairy tales... wake up it`s the 21 century
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Jenny our God doesn't approve of it at all but God gave us a brain to take care of our own problems and unfortunately this brain doesn't work right in all of us. God didn't make us robots so he could take care of everything that is wrong so we have to take care of our own and granted we aren't doing a good job at it so God will be back and destroy the world again one day maybe soon

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