I like a girl but I think she hates me. I am not sure but what should I do? She goes away when I come and sit with her and her friends. She rarely smiles at me. I am very confused and I am getting suicidal tendencies. What should I do?

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I like a girl but I think she hates me. I am not sure but what should I do? She goes away when I come and sit with her and her friends. She rarely smiles at me. I am very confused and I am getting suicidal tendencies. What should I do?

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Answer 1

Howdy buddy, interesting issue you're having. My friend, I'd recommend that you keep it cool, and don't obsess over the girl. That'll just drive you to self harm or neglect. I would suggest that you just leave the girl alone for a little while and see what she does then. Girls, don't enjoy consistent pressure. They enjoy a man who is relaxed, easy-going, loving, compassionate, and strong.

Pay close attention to the RELAXED and EASY GOING part. Girls will stray away if you appear obsessive or "over-attracted" to them.

So, just relax and watch for about a week or so. See what she does.

-Noah

Answer 2

This doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you , and don’t be too
obsessive or too into her that you’re gonna get hurt , maybe you guys don’t know each other well or shes heard some bad rumour about you that isn’t true and makes her dislike you , or you may have had a bad relationship with someone she knows , I suggest you should be gentle and calm and not too forceful and ask her if you guys can talk , ask her why she doesn’t like you , then you can
begin from there and get to know each other and get her to like you , don’t be too like you have to like me , let it flow but get rid of this tension she has , maybe she doesn’t hate you , you just presume she does with her reactions , don’tworry you become her friend then it goes on from there and you don’t have to put you’re life on the line just for this girl , you may really like her but you probably don’t really know her and its not worth it , because you will regret it when you may find out you don’t even like her that much .