Better to be straightforward with your partner, just say what you have to say and do what you have to do. Don't play games with other people's lives, you will lose respect from a lot of people. Speaking honestly from your heart and mind is the best thing you can do.
Depending on the difficulty, prepare your partner before starting to say or do anything, I mean like get your partner in the mood needed to start changing the relationship: "Honey, we need to talk, I have decided that I ..."
Depending on the difficulty, prepare your partner before starting to say or do anything, I mean like get your partner in the mood needed to start changing the relationship: "Honey, we need to talk, I have decided that I ..."