Is It Possible To Keep A Relationship Secret?

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doris rispoli answered
You can try to keep your relationship a secert but, if some one see's you with that special person than maybe they might tell. Can take the bus but, you might be taking a big chance. I know I did when I kept a sercert of a guy my partents found out and wanted me to stop dating that guy. Might back fire on you.try to meet not near the house and not to go where your parents would go to the movies or to dinner good luck
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I don't live anywhere near this person, so it would be really hard to see each other except at school. Any suggestions?
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doris rispoli commented
Can you take a bus to her house or have both of up I meet near the mall and I understand is very hard right now and an trying to help you as much I can. Or maybe a cab to her house or train not sure where you live. Let me know what happens, good luck
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Yes, it is possible to keep a relationship secret.  But secrets could also get found out. In your case, for example, if you keep thinking about this girl and secretly seeing her, you will have to use your time and brainpower planning your secret meeting.  That is time that otherwise would be put to studying. It is stressful to keep a secret.  

Understand that your parents have legitimate reasons for not allowing  you to date yet. It does not mean they would not be able to understand you.  Surely, they would because they love you and care for you.  Why don't you talk to your parents about this girl and how you feel? I am sure it will not be easy for you or your parents. But it could be a starting point. Doing this will show them your sense of responsibility.  

Good luck.
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There are 3 REALLY BAD relationship ideas.
1. Friends with benifits.
2. Hook ups
3. Secret relationships


although it is your parents it would be better to wait.
My friend was in the same situation and he tried it and his parents found out.
He now is trying to gain their trust back and might have to wait till he is 18 to date.


You could try it. But I wouldn't recommend it.

Just tell her. I really like you but my parents are really weird about me dating. Maybe if you met them first they would let me try it. Would you be up for that?

If that is uncomfortable for you then tell her you really like her and you would like to date her but maybe things should go slow and tell your parents that they can trust you because you really like her. Then they will open up to the idea. Maybe very slowly but I'm pretty sure they will.
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tanya campbell answered
Maybe you could sit down with your parents and talk to them again about you dating someone. Tell them you are interested in someone and you would like to date. And being a parent I know its hard but tell them that you can be trusted by bringing your date to your house to meet your parents, and maybe your parents will be okay with the idea that you and your girl will only hang out at the house supervised with your parents there. Then hopefully your parents will see that you two can be trusted and let you go out alone with each other.  BUT THAT MAY TAKE A LONG TIME TO GAIN THEIR TRUST! So I hope that you can talk to your parents about this and maybe they'll feel differently about you dating someone if they see that its in a supervised setting.
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I don't know how with all these people everywhere with camera phones. You could be anywhere and someone you know might catch you kissing, going into a motel, having drinks in a bar, the list goes on. Unless staying indoors all the time is ok with you, love should see the light of day. If you have to hide, you feel ashamed of what you are doing or you think it is wrong.
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Well I am and I only have my permit, its hard but when you want to see her just say you want to go out with some friends and meet her places I'm doing that right now because my bfs parents hate me and my parents and my parents hate my bf and his parents its like romeo and juliet  lol but good luck I pray you and this girl of yours will work out well.
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The only way I think you could truely do this safely is to first ask your potential girlfriend if she agrees to keep it secret and wont tell anyone. Especially with girls all we want to do is share everything with other people, and even if we share it with one girl only that can spread across the school in 2 minutes, so ud have to be careful. As far as parents go it should be pretty easy, but eventually if the relationship persists for like 6 or more months you should come clean and tell them how much she means to you and then they might understand..Good luck! :)
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Kayla Thompson answered
Yes it is possible even if you can't drive to keep a relationship secret. It would just be hard. You would have to meet up w/ this chick somewhere else and lie to your parents a lot. It would be hard.....but when you really like someone.....you try as hard as you can to have them and don't let anything stand in your way. So either you can try and see what happens w/ the relationship and see where it goes.....or you don't have to try at all and just forget about it and live life single till you can date. Its your call. Your decision. Hope I helped? :)
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I think it would be possible to keep it a secret  but you don't need to tell any one unless you r sure they can keep a secret so do what your heart tells you to do . They may have gave you life but one thing is 4sur they can not tell you who to love or date cause you can't help who you fall in love with or like
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Anonymous answered
No, it is not possible!!! You should not try to keep something from your parents!! Sit down with them and tell them you really like that girl and ask them to please let you go out with her!! If they say no do everything they say and they might change their minds!!

TRUST ME IT WORKS!!!!
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Totally.
I have don't it before.
My mom didn't like me going out with a black guy so I told her o broke up with him but I didn't.
We went on and on.
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This is not a good idea under any circumstances.  I don't recommend that you do that.
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Oh my god help me I really like this boy and he likes me but hes best friends with a guy that is completely in love with me any help
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Well...yes and no....if they find out just be honest and say hey you were a kid too right

-erica
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The only way I would think it would work is with Friends.  The problem I had here is I wanted to meet my friends older sister, my other friend wanted to meet his younger sister.  He know I wanted to meet the older sister.  He was going to introduce me to her the month before but a time compflict arose and I couldn't do it than.  I wish I wold have been able too, but that wold be going against who I am, and who she was looking for.  I am family oriented and she was too.  The conflict was this I thought I was going to the movies in the afternoon, and thought I woujld be back in plenty of time in the evening to go out and eat ice cream with them in the evening so I said ok.  I called my aunt to vefify my time with her and she said it was in the evening now I was screwed, because if I didn't go with them I woujld not look like a family oriented person.  Also if I did go with them I would look better to her.  Anyways I went with my aunt and uncle and canceled my ice cream meeting.  Later on he started something with my other friend when I was there and decided as long as I hang out with him he wasn't going to allow me to meet his older sister.  So we went to church to meet them as a stranger breaking contact with my friend.  We get close but more stuff happens.  I really want to meet this girl but after the stuff he put me through the court system we won.  How do you hide a relationship from her younger brother that is also your neibor and can affect your housing if he finds out.

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