This is a very vague question but I assume that you are talking about having sex with someone for the first time, or having sex with someone that you have had difficulty having sex with before for some reason. This could be something to do with nerves which most sexual issues usually are.
When thinking about having sex with someone, ensure that you both feel it is the right thing to do this will make having sex a lot easier and there will be less nerves in the way of making it a great experience for both of you. There are some things that you can try to do to make sure that when you do get to penetration, both of you are relaxed enough for the moment not to be too tricky or awkward.
When thinking about having sex with someone, ensure that you both feel it is the right thing to do this will make having sex a lot easier and there will be less nerves in the way of making it a great experience for both of you. There are some things that you can try to do to make sure that when you do get to penetration, both of you are relaxed enough for the moment not to be too tricky or awkward.
- Make sure that you have spoken about contraception beforehand so that you do not have to discuss this in the heat of the moment. This can make it awkward and ruin the mood.
- Check that there are no noises that may put you off such as someone else in the house or a barking dog in the next room.
- Make sure that you are both relaxed and ready, if one of you does not feel ready, this can make it awkward and also less enjoyable for both of you.
- Be comfortable with seeing each other naked. If you are nervous about being seen naked, you will not feel relaxed and this may change the mood from comfortable to something a little different and less relaxed.
