"The old adage was " bully a bully, shame a coward". It worked: Bullies don't like "a taste of their own medicine". Once it has worked on them, everyone can see that it worked so they won't do it again simply because they know they'll get the same treatment. Nowadays of course, we look for softer, structured ways of dealing with bullying. Result -- more bullying than ever, with more victims and lots of professional counsellors. Still, we feel good about ourselves because we are "being civilised". Yeah -- tell that to the victims."
This is dead on. We live in a society that is cowardly. It is not the bullies who should be given attention, but the people who are bullied. Regardless of their reasoning, anyone who victimises another person for no reason deserves the same back to them, in double form. I was bullied as a kid, and it leaves a lot of anger and resentment in my experience. People can claim "they have been brought up in abusive families" or "they don't know better". No, everyone knows the difference between right and wrong. They choose to victimise people, perhaps because they feel less academically intelligent at school, or when they grow up because they aren't as successful. Some bully just for the sake of it.
Now I know everyone is different. Some might be able to get past it, without holding any bad feelings against those who wronged them. All I know is a few people made my life hell, and they deserve to have the same done to them.
This is dead on. We live in a society that is cowardly. It is not the bullies who should be given attention, but the people who are bullied. Regardless of their reasoning, anyone who victimises another person for no reason deserves the same back to them, in double form. I was bullied as a kid, and it leaves a lot of anger and resentment in my experience. People can claim "they have been brought up in abusive families" or "they don't know better". No, everyone knows the difference between right and wrong. They choose to victimise people, perhaps because they feel less academically intelligent at school, or when they grow up because they aren't as successful. Some bully just for the sake of it.
Now I know everyone is different. Some might be able to get past it, without holding any bad feelings against those who wronged them. All I know is a few people made my life hell, and they deserve to have the same done to them.