Try turning it around on him like asking "Why do you say that? Do you feel fat and ugly?" Its one of those things like when someone farts and they want to blame it on the person closest to them.

What if you think about the question you are asking..."can you be friends with someone you are in love with?" Because when I need clarity on something personal like friendship or love, I also search my own self asking "would I like to be friends with someone I am in love with?" my answer is … Read more