So what if you want to work the problem out soon because you as a person is falling apart ?? The mate ignoring you and acting like it does not even matter to him?
Well, maybe there is lack of communication in the relationship as well as lack of affection. Maybe its time for the both of you'll to sit down and sort out somethings..just because its falling a part doesn't mean you can't fix it and get it where it should be again..But remember this, it takes two to fix a relationship. You can't do it by yourself, make sure your mate wants this as well as you do and if he does, then I say, GO FOR IT!
But how do you know if it is worth saving - - how do you get the commitment of the other to know it is worth trying (without sounding like you are nagging coz you have tried before and there is no change?)
Signs to see if your relationship is falling apart are most importantly an instinctive feeling that things are not going well. Other things to notice in ones partner are odd behaviour and preference for the company of others, moodiness, talking about others, intense joy or sadness in an erratic fashion, a lack of intimacy and a down right feeling in ones gut.
Love relationships have a sort of cycle to them. They begin with passion or an upward swing where a couple may be madly in love. This is a natural phenomenon and an analogy can be drawn into any of mans pursuits. When he is a child and is given a new toy the interest in it is most at the beginning, until the novelty fizzles out, but this depends on the complexity of the toy and its allure. Similarly relationships are bound to lose this initial stage and achieve a kind of plateau. The initial stage will last from anywhere between a few months to a couple of years. It is when this occurs that the couple should work to make it last.
Love relationships have a sort of cycle to them. They begin with passion or an upward swing where a couple may be madly in love. This is a natural phenomenon and an analogy can be drawn into any of mans pursuits. When he is a child and is given a new toy the interest in it is most at the beginning, until the novelty fizzles out, but this depends on the complexity of the toy and its allure. Similarly relationships are bound to lose this initial stage and achieve a kind of plateau. The initial stage will last from anywhere between a few months to a couple of years. It is when this occurs that the couple should work to make it last.
Well here's all I know about this.
1. Your girlfriend, or boyfriend isn't talking to you.
2. He, or she isn't so flirty with you anymore.
3. You start to fight a lot.
4. Your not agreeing on anything at all.
5. You get pushed away from him, or her.
1. Your girlfriend, or boyfriend isn't talking to you.
2. He, or she isn't so flirty with you anymore.
3. You start to fight a lot.
4. Your not agreeing on anything at all.
5. You get pushed away from him, or her.
Youll know in your heart. It could be a rough patch...or it could be over you know when you just don't feel the need to be around the person anymore...and youll do anything to talk to someone else...also you mat fight a lot...and not feel happy when you are around them...and even if you still love him/her its just best not to be around each other.
When all trust and understanding is gone from relation.
You can see that your boyfriend is ignores you and looks at other chicks and does not want to make out with you!
You know your relationship is falling apart...... When your bf/gf kicks with all their might whenever you are play fighting with then and them go to another male or female house for more than 4 hours just too talk (what do you think they where doing) lol.....and then when you tell them that you ran out of gas in the middle of the street looking for them and they don't come and help you.
You can tell if things arent the same as they once used to be. If you don't want it to fall apart then let your bf/gf know that.