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PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

Is your mother your only relative? Do you have any grandparents? An aunt or uncle? What about your dad? If so go to them for help. Also talk to the counselor at school. Depending on where you live, there should be programs that can help you. A counselor can get you in touch with them.

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

Gator has a wonderful answer. ☺

On another note I want to encourage you that this little precious baby is a gift to you and him. If he don't see it that way, you can't change him BUT you can change yourself. You are strong. You can get through this. It will be tough but YOU ARE tougher! When you look your baby in his/her eyes for the first time you will see.... Your whole life in those eyes. Hang in there my friend. And THANK YOU for not posting anonymously.

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Leanne Robbins answered

I don't know what school you go to but if you have a school counselor maybe you could talk to them about it? We have three and when I first started here I was really nervous and talked to one. They were really helpful

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Walt O'Reagun answered

1 - your parent can't kick you out, until you either turn 18 or get emancipated by a court.

2 - get an abortion.

3 - if #2 is not an option, get a lawyer ... And as soon as the child is born, file for child support against the father.  It won't matter where he lives, they can garnish his wages.

4 - go around school telling every girl how stupid you now feel.  maybe you'll save someone else from going through this idiocy of child pregnancy.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
I forgot about number one! Great point! Gotta be 18 whether she wants it or not and gotta be 18 whether mom wants her there or not! :0)
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Hannah Richard answered

Hello. I am very Scared and freaking out because I don't have my baby's daddy here with me to support me (I am 15 and and pregnant) i don't have a job yet to support me and my baby and my mom said that she is going to kick me out of the house and I don't want people at school judging me because I am 15 and pregnant. What should I do?

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Bikergirl Anonymous
Talk to your school counsellor, your doctor, another relative .. someone who can give you some grown up advise about what your options are. You don't have a lot of options without your parents support .. so you have to work with what you can find. At your age, with a baby, you will not be able to 'support' yourself, for obvious reasons.

Not that I am not be supportive, or insensitve when I say this .. but, you want to play adult games, then you have to pay adult consequences. Time to grow up and start thinking forward .. not backwards. Ask for help .. and advise. If you decide to keep this child, you may have to get the courts involved to get child support from your baby daddy .. it doesn't matter if he wants to or not . He is just as responsible for this child as you are.
Bikergirl Anonymous
Just another little tidbit .. You are a minor, and your parents are legal bound to care for you. Your mom can 'kick you out of the house' . but, she is also legally responsible for you, and your housing, and your safety.

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