Have you done something 10-15 Or 20 years ago bad, wrong, misstep and a family member and/or friend just won't let it go? Keeps bringing up the painful past.

Oh lord my sister toni is holding on to everything from the 70s

My mother would. However, she's chosen not to have any relationship with her five kids, so I've been spared that. If I have a choice, I don't associate with people that cannot put something down after it's already been hashed over - apologies, if needed, have been given and accepted and the person cannot move on. Life is too short.

I just go through my day and randomly get hit with cringy memories. Luckily, I tend to get over it quickly