Do you forget "Injustices" easily? (I'm not speaking of Forgiveness.)

Dear Jan,

I would never even want to forget, because someone's ability for justice is part of how I relate to them...

Typically I don't even find myself in the "line of fire" for injustice, because I start with my own sense about people, and if they are incapable of justice I would just duck and dodge those situations, pre-emptively. So if they do me an unexpected injustice, I simply adjust my relationship with them.

But you must always fine-tune also; as people grow in the way of love, over the years of their life, their capacity for justice expands. 

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Actually, I usually make it a point to trust people a little beyond their ability, just for room to grow...

No, I don't forget them. Some I may forgive, most I won't.

It's one of the few things I never forget.

Well Jan, not easily, no. That being said, I do have to add that the one major "injustice" in my life I must try to forget, learn from, yes....but also forget, lest it control the rest of my life...and that would be giving waaay too much power to that injustice. So yes, I choose to forget it and leave it where it belongs.

In one of his books, Asimov had a tyrant say, "I'm glad you're not looking for justice, Mr. Bayley.  People who want justice are such nice people that it's a shame to disappoint them."

Life is full of injustices but even though I may shrug off the minor ones, I remember the biggies.

Nope. I may forgive, but I rarely forget.

I forget most of the time, because it hurts me more if I don't.

Two yrs in prison for spitting gum on a cops tie no i dont forgive or forget $!#:#"" the law here in texas

Yes, I do. I have to, if I didn't I'd be a bitter mess. I refuse to be that way.

Once this great man said:

-Forgive your enemies but never forget their names.

Injustice is unforgivable to me! But i might forgive under conditions, but never will forget. And i mean never.

Nope