Ahhhh this must be why I just can't seem to settle down ... I haven't found a man who's superior to me ....I guess I better start collecting cats then.
I feel that women would like to date with those men who are superior than them. Even if one guy has only one factor that is superior to the girl that I don't have, I won't be able to compete against that guy?
What? I hope im not superior over no one. My cat owns me she is superior
Dear Anonymous,
If I may suggest to you, try not to think of dating as a competition?
Maybe more just look for a woman you have a good time with, lots of fun, share values...be a good friend...
Then you can just allow a relationship to unfold naturally; because when a woman loves you no one else can compete, no matter what qualities they have.
I have never dated anyone I felt was superior than me. But than again, I don't think anyone is superior to anyone else. I did date men, and married a man who are confident in themselves.
Your way of thinking is very twisted and weak I am sorry to say. :0(
The biggest thing I see here is a lack of self confidence in yourself so youre selling yourself short my friend. Don't try to be someone youre not so always be yourself and not knowing what women actually want, and everyone is different, being yourself may be what one wants. God made you being different and special in your own unique way and there is someone out here for all of us and when you least expect it she will be there. The biggest thing is knowing what to do when she does and there is no real help here. You need to work on your self confidence here so start setting small goals and as you reach them, set your next goals higher and so on and one day youll be awesome and remember there is NO special secret or special recipe to make someone feel about us like we do them. Be patient my friend and youll find a GF soon. Good luck