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I feel that women would like to date with those men who are superior than them. Even if one guy has only one factor that is superior to the girl that I don't have, I won't be able to compete against that guy?

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Jaimie  JT Profile
Jaimie JT answered

Ahhhh this must be why I just can't seem to settle down ... I haven't found a man who's superior to me ....I guess I better start collecting cats then.

Virginia Lou Profile
Virginia Lou answered

Dear Anonymous,

If I may suggest to you,  try not to think of dating as a competition?

Maybe more just look for a woman you have a good time with, lots of fun, share values...be a good friend...

Then you can just allow a relationship to unfold naturally; because when a woman loves you no one else can compete, no matter what qualities they have.

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Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson commented
To be clear---as in no one else can compete with her in my mind.
Virginia Lou
Virginia Lou commented
Dearest Tom...on this site that I know of, you, Dozy, Ancient Hippy, HappyTwo and The Z plus a few others have experienced such wonderful marriage. Warms my heart, and in some strange way a feeling of relief, somehow too...
Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson commented
I hear you.
PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

I have never dated anyone I felt was superior than me. But than again, I don't think anyone is superior to anyone else. I did date men, and married a man who are confident in themselves.

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Corey The Goofyhawk , Epic has no limit, answered

I prefer a woman who is great where I'm weak and vice versa. I have learned a lot from my wife because she has strengths that I don't. It makes it easier for us to work together and we are able to learn from each other. Does that make sense?

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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

The biggest thing I see here is a lack of self confidence in yourself so youre selling yourself short my friend. Don't try to be someone youre not so always be yourself and not knowing what women actually want, and everyone is different, being yourself may be what one wants. God made you being different and special in your own unique way  and there is someone out here for all of us and when you least expect it she will be there. The biggest thing is knowing what to do when she does and there is no real help here.  You need to work on your self confidence here so start setting small goals and as you reach them, set your next goals higher and so on and one day youll be awesome and remember there is NO special secret or special recipe to make someone feel about us like we do them. Be patient my friend and youll find a GF soon. Good luck

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