Probably every time I open my mouth-
Have you ever hurt someone without meaning to?
Yea. It's not something I like thinking about.
I'm sure it's more than i can count.
These are some of the reasons i can analyse right now:
-The moment of anger. As they said never make any decisions or say certain things when you're angry.
-Not being aware of one's values and believes.
-Not knowing what others consider as offensive.
-Conflict moments of trying to defend something you know, believe or love. And it might cause a type of sudden reactions that are totally out of sense and it might turn out hurtful.
-Sometimes you hurt people by overreacting for protecting them.
-Sometimes you hurt people by having a busy schedule and you become unable to pay enough attention to what they do and how they do.
And many more . . . .
I am pretty sure anyone who has made it to adulthood has. It happens. You just need to sincerely apologize and hope they forgive you. And hopefully you learn the life lesson and learn to be more careful in your words and/or actions.
Yea it happened more times than I wished for...
Especially on here 😳.
Yes---unintentionally a few times.
On the other hand, sometimes the truth does hurt and yet some truths need to be told.
That's life in general.
On a site like this, I have to have your permission in order for what I say to hurt you.