My 15 year old son hangs around a bunch of 10 yr olds and I'm afraid he likes one of the girls?

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

Anna, you are the parent. You have a 15 y/o that is friends with kids much younger than he is. There are a ton of things that he could be involved with besides 10 y/o.

If he has interests, such as chess, reading, etc., start looking for clubs either in your city or at his school. If he plays sports or wants to, look into that. He needs to be busy at home doing chores as well, so he is contributing to the family. Find some volunteer work for him to do.

It's summer and there are generally a ton of things going on. If he is telling you that kids make fun of him, try and find out why. He could be socially awkward and needs practice talking with others.

Continuing this friendship with kids much younger than he is will not lead to good things. As his parent, step in and end this and help him discover other ways to find friends.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

The potential risks involved here FAR outweigh any potential benefits.

And I say "potential benefits" only on a theoretical basis since I can't think of any that might exist.

And if his not having any friends is a concern to you, what could a 15 yr old boy and a 10 year old girl possibly have in common (appropriately) to base a friendship on.

Your son needs to start making friends closer to his own age.  You need to do two things---1) tell him that and ---2) help him do that.

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anna Roger
anna Roger commented
I know he needs friend's his own age but he's childish and he tells me the kids his age make fun of him
anna Roger
anna Roger commented
And how do I block people
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Danae Hitch commented
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Barb Cala answered

A 15 year old is still a child.  He's obviously making bad choices.  That's why children need adult supervision to help them make the right choices.  There's something wrong if a 15 year old is interested in 10 year olds.  You need to intervene and get some help with this if you can't handle it.

anna Roger Profile
anna Roger answered

But what if I'm wrong than he won't have any friends

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anna Roger
anna Roger commented
How do I block people
Barb Cala
Barb Cala commented
If 10 year olds are the only friends he has ... he needs you to intervene and make sure he has the right friends for him .. not just any friends at all.
anna Roger
anna Roger commented
I'm trying to stop it
Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

If you refuse to listen to the advice the others have given you ... Prepare for your 15-year-old son to be convicted of a sex crime and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life.

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Walt O'Reagun
Walt O'Reagun commented
Actually ... more like when he's 16. At that point, ANYBODY could see him with the 10-year-old and report him to the police or Child Services. In fact, school officials would be required to. And at 16, he could face ADULT charges of being a sex predator in many states.
anna Roger
anna Roger commented
I'm just gonna let him stay in his room I don't wanna make him upset trying to argue with him. And honestly when he does get 17 his sister will be 5 so if he is still like that he might have to move out
Walt O'Reagun
Walt O'Reagun commented
Guess what? You can't make him move out at 17. You have to provide a home for him until he is 18. And if you fail to do so - you can go to jail.

It sounds like you need to see a family counselor ... 'cause it sounds like you have a few issues to deal with, other than this.

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