What can i do if my girlfriends dad wont let her move out the house with me. Btw we are both 20?

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Zack -  Mr. GenXer Profile

You never had a chance in the matter. Sorry.

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Bryan Gwinn
Bryan Gwinn commented
Legally she can leave anytime after 18 but her dad will physically not let her
Zack -  Mr. GenXer
That's exactly what I meant. The father isn't about to let her go. No matter what. Thing is that I know you don't want to stir up that kind of trouble with a family.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Great point! Star!
Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

Something sounds fishy......

Either with this question or with the girlfriends father. OR...... I have ALWAYS told my kids that I will be more then happy to be their "bad guy" or their scapegoat if they ever needed an excuse to get out of doing something they didn't want to (such as go over to a friends house.) Maybe she does not really want to move in with you or maybe she is not really ready to leave the shelter of her father's house yet. There are too many variables here........

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Dakota Mackenzie
Dakota Mackenzie commented
Oooh. My mom has done something like that for me 😋
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
It is a perfect solution I always thought. I could care less what other kids thought of me and my kids could still keep their "coolness!" LOL!
PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

Well if you are in the US and your girlfriend is 20, it is her that is not moving in with you. Hear father can't stop her. She has weighed her options and made her decision.

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Bryan Gwinn
Bryan Gwinn commented
Its not that she doesnt want to move out, she really does but her dad is being stubborn and wont let her and making a big fuss about it because if she leaves he wont get a monthly check anymore
PJ Stein
PJ Stein commented
If she is 20, what check is he getting? She should be getting it not him.
Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

He can't either legally or physically stop her. If he is doing that she should call the police for assistance    They could be there while she's leaving and keep him from doing anything. 

Jazlyn Bell Profile
Jazlyn Bell answered

If you both are 20 then I do not understand why her father is being stubborn. If she really wants to move out then her dad should not stop her from something she wants to do. Though, I can understand if her father is just worried about her, but other than that if you both agree on moving out then he shouldn't stop you or her.

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