What do you think it means when a guy gives you his shirt to wear, doesn't let you go outside barefoot, helps you to his room cause you're really tired, and doesn't push you away even though your hair is in his face?


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Rooster Cogburn Profile
Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Sounds like a guy with good manners that cares a lot about you ! Sounds like a keeper ! Rarely hear this any more. A real gentleman !

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Corey The Goofyhawk , Epic has no limit, answered

I'd say he cares about you and he's a keeper. Some of us guys are still good and chivalrous! It's too bad the selfish, egotistical nerfherders give us a bad rep. And yes, I did just slip a Starwars reference in there.

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Corey The Goofyhawk
In the original Starwars trilogy, Princess Lea used the term "nerfherder" as an insult for Han Solo because he was a smuggler and came off as a player.
Vickey lou
Vickey lou commented
hahaha the originals are the best
otis campbell Profile
otis campbell answered

Sounds like a good guy.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Well, he's apparently both tender and protective.

The primary possible problem is that he is really way overprotective and you don't know that yet.

As long as he stops being protective when you want him to, he sounds like a really nice guy.

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Vickey lou
Vickey lou commented
lol he's really a jerk, which is why him doing this stuff throws me off. I'm starting to think there's more to him and he puts up a front.
Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson commented
That's why the maxim is: Behavior is always Overdetermined.
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Either youre dreaming or you found your Prince Charming but don't hurry into anything and give him the test of time to see if hes a flash in the pan or the real deal here but beware that not everyone is always as they appear so if you expect the unexpected here, youll never get hurt. Time will tell all here. Good luck

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Vickey lou
Vickey lou commented
thanks, just the thing is hes a jerk, so this nice side is the unexpected side and it throws me off. Im not too worried about it though, we're just friends at the moment
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Then the best thing here may be just to stay as friends as a couple has to be really good friends first before they can have a great relationship otherwise it wont stand the test of time so be friends but for now don't expect more
Janis Haskell Profile
Janis Haskell answered

Sounds like a nice guy.  Just don't read more into it too quickly.

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