It's your modesty. A very attractive quality in anybody. >;-)
I got the feeling that you want praise for your actions. Something you won't get from me.
Because you are a challenge to any Player. Players don't like to be rejected by anyone so the harder you are to catch, the bigger the challenge you become. They have no idea how to catch you which drives them nuts and personally I think is awesome here so keep it up. They cry because theyre frustrated here and youre damaging their macho player egos and this embarrasses them in front of their player friends. Good work and good luck