I don't hate them. I really really really dislike people to say, Its OK and it will get better. I could have gangrene in my big toe😫
Sometimes I get "stuck" on something, like for example if I am going to have a household of people for the holidays or something, I want everything to be perfect and someone says the FORBIDDEN WORD to me, which is "Relax".
Then I lose all sense of reason 😬 lol
(Watch Hippy tell me to "relax" now)