what to do when people ask for nudes on teenage social medias (teen perspective)?

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

Let's look at it this way, Emilie. If you knew that if you took a nude pix of yourself of any body part, that it would end up on the front page of your newspaper, would you do it anyway? What if someone showed this pix to your little brother or sister? Or perhaps your grandmother?

How likely would you send it if you knew that as soon as you sent it, the police were to knock on your door and arrest you for child pornography?

The police are trying to stop kids from sending these pix, in order to keep them safe, so they are cracking down on the sexting. 14 and 15 kids have been arrested for sending nude pix to each other.

Nothing that you send electronically is safe. NOTHING.  Once you hit SEND, the temptation is too great to show it to everyone.

Besides, wouldn't you want to be known for your discretion and for saving that private part of you to someone who will respect all of you, not just your naked breasts? My advice - just say no, thanks.

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Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch commented
No need to take everything so literally, Emilie. The point is to review who in your life (or your friend's life) who you don't want to see the photo and then imagine what their reaction would be if they were to see it. Tell your friend that once the photo is sent, it's out of her hands on who will see it and where it will end up.
Emilie Francheska
you have the same global chat as me right her name is halie tell her directly
Emilie Francheska
sorry 4 being rude aswell
Ancient Hippy Profile
Ancient Hippy answered

You have total control over what you do and don't do.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Well, to decline "nicely," I would tell them you might consider a thumbnail head shot without a hat on for 1 billion dollars.

That way you haven't really said "no," so they can't give you a hard time for not posting one.

And yet you have given them an option to get one if they want---yet they obviously will be unable to meet your "condition" of giving you the 1 billion dollars.

Effectively, you have made getting what he/she/they want want from you their problem.

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

just ask "would you do it?" cuz i think most people are not even willing to do such shameless things.

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Maheen Sehar answered

I never understood that. That could never be me. It's so slutty! I would feel extremely uncomfortable if I post pictures like that. You never know what creepy dude might see them. Hmm, and other thing I don't understand is why they expect to find a boyfriend if they don't even respect themselves. You post pictures like that & expect to get in a "serious relationship"? Yea okay...


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