How to get a girl's attention?


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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

Well first of all, you don't need to take anyone's attention, you need to be yourself & if you meant to be with someone, you'll take their attention without doing anything.

Second of all, make sure to be yourself (important) never try to copy others, never try to fake your behavior, never try to be someone that you're not. Or you'll be screwed literally.

Third of all, learn the level that called "appropriate" . Right now some dear people suggested *making smile,giving flower ect .. Also i'm about to give my own suggestions) but you need to know when to do something,when to say something, where to do it & how to do it. Not cross lines, not to cross her personal space ect . . .

Now, "If you wanna take a girl's attention, you need to show  your "Attention" first.  But that entirely depends how much you guys could be close from the first place.

-Listen to her words,listen carefully when she has something to say,agree with her, support her, defend her statements in front of others, back her up,let her know if she needed any help, she can counts on you, never disappoint her when it comes to it, try to find out her favorite categories, then do different creative stuff around those faves, (for instance, she loves a band, find a rare thing about that band like a published book & give it to her, or find out her favorite color & choose your clothing by that color, or get her favorite perfume & use it ect . .stuff like that) open up discussions about her favorites, try to make her smile, try to make her happy,  confident her, makes her to believe in herself, makes her to believe in her abilities to move forward & reach her dreams, be there in important events, if she felt sad, try to built her up, if she felt happy try to take a share & makes her more happy, when she get something that she wanted, be the first person that congrates her, be one of the first people that wish her birthday, flowers are good too,attention of every detail of her appearance, see the hairstyle, the way she done make up, dressed, be polite, make polite compliments, admire her, try to pick up the right words, words are magical,  make sure you learn how to express them & yourself.

ect . . .!

John Boynton jb Profile
John Boynton jb answered

Be yourself, give her some flowers.

Anika Chan Profile
Anika Chan answered

Yeah, just be yourself. Sometimes we can tell when a guy's being obvious in trying so hard to get attention and we don't like that. If you like her then tell her directly. Or you can start by asking her out.

Reyhaneh Seyyed Hosseini Profile

Try to be yourself and be creative. Tell her what you feel and why. Buy her some flowers and give it to her while you are asking her out. Making a girl laugh is nice but do not act wacky. One thing that really helps is to use a nice-smelling perfume. If the girl feel comfort around you, then you should know that you have stole her heart.

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