How do you control yourself when someone you love (online) just breaks every means of connecting and has just left you?

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Kioyre S. Profile
Kioyre S. answered

I can speak from experience. D:

It's not a nice feeling to have someone whom you trusted and loved oh-so dearly simply leave without a trace or explanation, but the only thing you can do is move on. Unless you're persistent in trying to keep in touch and manage to get a hold of them and truly want to seek out a reason, then I wish you good luck, but the main idea is to carry on forth. Perhaps it could teach you something - you never know! Pick up interesting hobbies, meet new people... It's tough to linger in the past, as bittersweet as it is... (: There are so many other people eager to meet so many other people. You'll find someone (or find this person again) in no time. Patience is a virtue, after all.

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Yo Kass answered

Ouch! Yes, it's painful - but as the saying goes, time is a great healer.

Also try to bear in mind that someone who would act in such a disrespectful way is probably not worth being with. If they have so little regard for your feelings that they don't even stay in touch, then you've probably avoided a greater pain of discovering this further down the line, maybe once the relationship had become more serious...

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Anonymous answered

I do not really know because I have been the one how breaks up with them

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

Just get a real bf or gf. It's a lot better.  But when that goes sour it hurts a lot more. Sorry its just apart of life someone new always comes along.

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