There is someone out there for me, but how do i find her?

Like we say in the South, "You can't catch Bass in a mud puddle, and nuns don't live in strip clubs," so if you want quality people who share your interests/morals/goals, go to the places/events YOU enjoy and  look for opportunities to start conversations with those you find interesting, attractive, and/or possess the qualities you're looking for in a spouse. Shine yourself up like a new penny--be clean, dress sharp, wear a bit of cologne, and have a sense of humor--and let THEM come to YOU. Good luck

Don't look for her allow this person to find you. Most things are possible so in that case(if your religious) then let God do his work he'll send someone just for you.