Okay so I like this guy at school, but he never seems to notice me. I still don't think he notices me. So... how do I get him to? Help!

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Nikki Ridgerider Profile

Don't try to dress provocatively or anything like that. Then you may come off as er...a slutttt. Yea...

Honestly, I'd just try to befriend him. Best case scenario, your teacher assigns you two as partners for a project. Then you can kinda get to know each other. This would be good because from what you've said you kinda like him from a distance. You may not even know much about him yet, and there could be something he does that you don't like. Part of love is accepting the good as well as the bad in people.

Lynn Blakeman Profile
Lynn Blakeman answered

Guys are complicated aren't they? Getting one to notice you is so difficult when you like them, it always seems to be the ones you aren't attracted to that stare at you.

There are several ways of getting this guy to realise what an awesome chick you really are though so, let's think...

Does he have any hobbies or interests that you know of? 

Maybe if he likes a certain band you could stroll past him humming one of their songs or, on a non-uniform day, wear a t shirt with the band logo printed on it - that's a conversation starter.

Maybe he is good at a particular subject. In which case maybe you could say that you just don't get it and ask him if he will explain it to you. While he is doing that just be very friendly with him but not overly flirty. This is a great time to get to know more about him and talk about things that you have in common.

If all else fails you could try the friend trick. You know, the one where you get your friend to go up to him and tell him you fancy him. It's a bit risky and very embarrassing but at least then you will know if he has noticed you.

Does he do anything in the evenings that you could do too? I'm thinking maybe he is a member of a group or club locally that you might be able to join.

If there is a film that you know he likes you could be brave and say to him that you want to see it but none of your friends do, then ask if he fancies going with you.

Good luck! Let me know how you get on,and I hope he is worthy of you ;-)

Lizzy Lohutko Profile
Lizzy Lohutko answered

I wouldn't suggest the first one but I always act obnoxious or loud for guys to notice me.  Or if that doesnt work I just befriend them.

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