I have trouble speaking with girls in class. I feel awkward, shy and therefore cannot react. It is killing me. Can someone please give me some advice - I haven't talked to a girl in 5-6 months!


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Lia Tan Profile
Lia Tan , person of the female gender, answered

First of all, try to identify why you feel that way. Why do you feel shy and awkward? Is it because you're afraid that you'll do or say something stupid? Or is it because you just don't know what to say?

If you fear that you'd do or say stupid things, then relax. Unless you're dealing with a really awful girl, girls won't judge you. Most girls might actually find it funny (not in a bad way either) or even cute . To be in good terms with girls, you don't have to be Prince Charming or the guy who knows what he's doing all the time. Just be nice and treat them with respect.

If you don't know what to say or do, then observe the girls who you want to talk to. When I say observe, I do not mean stalking them and watching their every move. Just notice little things about them like what they say in class discussions, what they say to their friends, or any indication of what they like. And when you've gathered enough "information", you can strike up a conversation with them.

But unless you find out why you're acting this way, this is all I can say about your problem. I hope things do get better for you.

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Filip Kuhtic answered

Go to this website and read everything about dating.
Authors that write the material also have videos and books that you should read. Invest your time in reading and trying different technics. You will learn allot about psychology , and that is what dating is all about.
You must remember that there is no easy fix. Untill you change your attitude and realise that only bad thing is you getting turned down (and that's not so bad because everyone has been turned down million times) you will find no success.

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Paul william answered

When you find the right woman you need to talk to her and see what happens. Disappointment is a part of life and it might not go your way. If you stay shy you will miss opportunity.
Believe in yourself :)

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