Do You Have Bi-polar Friends That You Deal With On A Regular Basis?

10

10 Answers

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I am bipolar and so are my siblings and it can be difficult to deal with, not just for us, but for our friends too.
Ginny Nell Private Profile
I have a close cousin who is 65 and has been bipolar all her life. Having a relationship with people suffering from this condition is like being on a roller coaster. To continue to be friends with her you will need to realize that what you have described is always going to be happening. My solution to preserving my relationship with my cousin is to make it clear to her that I love her, and that when she is at either extreme I simply can't handle it, and it is better for both of us and for our relationship for me to withdraw and wait for the storm to pass. Works for us.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I am bi polar myself and it is very hard to deal with.i lost my wife and kids due to this illness.believe me,it is not you.up down,up down,it goes on and on.if the dosage is right its controllable.i just now got steady but its now to late to get my family back.recognizing it early is great.the right kind of meds and they will be just as good as mint.
Pamela Krueger Profile
Pamela Krueger answered
I have a good friend who is bi-polar as well as a daughter who is bi-polar.  They both take meds for it, but sometimes run out before they refill their script.  I can always tell because their personality completely changes.  With my friend, I just don't talk to her when she gets like that.  With my daughter, it is different and sometimes is quite challenging.
2 People thanked the writer.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
I find with my friend it's sometimes difficult to discern between the bi-polar episodes and her actual personality. Her memory is one thing that is getting worse and I believe her mental health issue is a direct result. We can choose to not be around our friends, but family makes it much more difficult to make choices like that.
Brian Reed Profile
Brian Reed answered
Yes and it is very difficult because it is my little brother
2 People thanked the writer.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
How old is your brother? I can imagine how difficult it is with a family member, although this friend I think of as "family". Even though so many of my other friends have told me to forget her, I have such a problem with that. She however has a problem keeping friends because once she realizes they have faults and they don't think like she does they are only taking up her oxygen. She's also been very vindictive toward some that told her "how the cow ate the calf" so to speak.
Brian Reed
Brian Reed commented
It is prettybad sometimes , He is schizophreic too but he's been doing better lately . As long as he sticks to his meds
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
That happens. I know one Blurter, for example, who has an avatar that is my enemy and another that is my friend. Go figure. Some people are just wackjobs.
1 Person thanked the writer.
View all 7 Comments
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
What a jerk!
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
You know Mr. "Anonymous" why do you hide behind "anonymous?" Why don't you show your ugly face and face the internet like a man! You wanna call people who are ill "wackjobs?" I will GLADLY stand up to you YOU WORTHLESS PIECE OF INTERNET SPACE!
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Yah..... true...... still had to get it off of my chest! LOL! :0)
Virginia Lou Profile
Virginia Lou answered

Dear Anon,

Yes, I do have three close friends who are bipolar...for me it has not been difficult at all, maybe because they are my age and they have gained such insight over the years.

Our friendship just seems to benefit from all the life lessons they have incorporated, they see life more deeply, and so I especially treasure them in my heart.

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

First of all, bipolar people are not "wackjobs" like the jerk on the previous post said! I have someone very VERY close to me who is bipolar and I am realizing since his diagnosis that there are many MANY people close to me who are bipolar and I would have never guessed! Mental illness gets such a bad name because of stupid idiots like the post above! Having a loved one diagnosed with bipolar is difficult because you need to stay in close contact with the doctor till they find the right "cocktail" of medication for that individual! So how you "deal" with it?..... Just like you would any other person who is ill. You love them through it! I mean how would you treat a loved one going through chemo treatments? Would you treat them differently because they are sick and seeking treatment? NO I should hope not. Your bipolar friend needs your love, support and to know that you are a STABLE person/thing in there very unstable roller coaster of a life. Put yourself in THEIR shoes and walk just a mile. I guarantee you will see them as more then a "wackjob" like the previous jerk had the balls to answer!

Answer Question

Anonymous