I'm 14 And Haven't Started My Period. WHY? I Have All The Signs Of Puberty But Just Haven't Started. I Know It's Mad But I Want To Start Because All My Mates Have And I Feel Like A Baby. Please Help Me. I Wanna Know When I'm Gonna Start.

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Karen Mallette Profile
Karen Mallette answered
Your really lucky you didn't start it yet because I started when I was 12years
old and it wasn't so great because I had bad cramps and all my friends got it when they
were 13-16, anyways what I'm saying is that everyone gets is at different ages and you have
nothing to worry about.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Its perfeclty normal because I'm also 14 and I havent gotten my period yet either. I was scared at first because my sisiters got it at 12 and my neice got it before me. Some people get it later than others and if you are really concerned you can go to your doctor and you don't have to tell your parents. Even if you have all the signs its okay to wait because you will get it even though it is fusturating. Good luck=)
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Anonymous answered
I havent started mine yet either and I'm 15. I get what you mean by feel like a 'baby' I kinda do too. But then yeah I'm glad I havent started at the same time. I just feel like sometime I wish I had started my period.all my friends have to :/
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Anonymous answered
I'm also 14 and haven't started, at times it feels like I'm the odd one out with my friends because there talking about being on and everything, but after reading these comments and getting advice from my 20 yr old sister I realised it ain't that good to be on your period... It normal for everyone to start at different stages; I'm fully developed and everything, its just my periods decided not to show up lol... Just do what I do if your worried about starting at school - carry a pantyliner/pad round in your bag/bra/purse to make sure if it does come, it doesnt catch you off guard :') hope I helped xx xx
Kk polly Profile
Kk polly answered

Nah, you're normal girl. I don't understand you people though. Yes, I got mine at twelve, but I've always considered it a curse. The only thing you could be doing wrong is not eating enough, but if you're at a healthy weight then you're perfectly fine. Have patience.

Kira Profile
Kira answered
For everyone it's different, you'll start when you stop worrying about it, but really you are lucky to have not started it.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Yeah don't worry I'm 14 too and I haven't gotten my period either. I really don't want to start it, so we are lucky, because a lot of my friends get irritable and bad cramps when they are on it. Sometimes I feel like a baby, but I realize I'm lucky and now the only thing I want to worry about is not getting it at school.
Natalie Jo Price Profile

Don't worry. Ask when your mother, sisters, grandmothers got it. It's linked to genetics. My grandma did get hers until 16, my mom, 17, my sis 17...me, I was only 13.

larissa kowlessar Profile

Look, it will come and it doesn't matter if your friends have it already. 

Just believe in yourself and if you don't get it by the age of 16, you should see the doc.

nikki ke. Profile
nikki ke. answered

It's normal. I know a few people who didn't start until they were 18, so I wouldn't worry about it. And I don't think you should WANT to start. The cramps suck.

Taylor Brookes Profile
Taylor Brookes answered

I know what you mean; it feels like you're less mature than others, but trust me, they get really annoying really quickly. You will hate them. You can't do sports and it makes you feel really ill. 14 isn't late. If you get to 16 and still haven't started, maybe you should be worried, but it just depends on you. Anyway, there's nothing you can do to make it come quicker, so try not to stress out about it (actually, stress can sometimes mess around with your cycle...).

Daisy Profile
Daisy answered
Many girls get their periods at different ages but you might need to go to the doctor if you're seventeen and havent gotten it yet because it could be something serious but for the moment don't worry about it you might get it soon
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Hun I'm 14 and havent started my period yet either you have nothing to worry about I agree with others the more you want your period the longer it will take just relax and it will come when its ready I hope this helps :) ! X
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Anonymous answered
I'm 14 and havent started
I feel the same but don't worry .
I have all the signs so if you do it will obviously come soon
As long as your happy who care what others think
my friend said I'm lucky and they are jelous so    x haha x
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Same here! It's so annoying. I'm seriously the last of my friends. Luckily there's other people that feel the same way haha
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I'm 14 too I'm so nervous because my parents family both started at 
Age 12 so I'm worried that I won't get one!
All of my friends have theirs but. I went to the doctor
And he said everyone starts different times
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I had the same problem; but I got it all checked out with my doctor and it finally came when I was 17. I'm 30 now, and thankful it came so late.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I'm 14 also and I haven't started either.  All my friends have started but me.. Just think of it as a good thing cause, hey at least we don't have to worry about it! :P
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Hey! Don't worry about it! Think yourself lucky! I know how you feel as I'm nearly 15 and only just got my period! I even went to the extent of saying I did have it because I was embarrassed I didnt! A little advice=A week before my period I had very tender breasts but I didnt realise this until after I got it!
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Anonymous answered
PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I HAVEN STARTED puberty . I am 14 this year and I HAVE NO Pubic hair. My penis is small and I am short. My voice have not broke. Is there sth wrong wif me? I DO BOT HAVE A LITTLE SIGN OF mustache small ONES. Even those 11 years old kids have.. I know what you are going to say..Its alright. And absolute normal maybe I am a late bloomer. I AM NOT! There is so many things to worry about.. Friends teasing me.. PLEASE tell me !!!
thanked the writer.
Anastasia Mrs
Anastasia Mrs commented
maybe go see a doctor.....?
Kk polly
Kk polly commented
My brother was the latest bloomer ever! But when he turned 15 he grew a whole foot!
Kk polly
Kk polly commented
I had always thought eleven and twelve year olds with mustaches were weird. You're still an earlier bloomer than my brother. Lol my parents took him for bone grafts and things. The doctors said he was fine and they were right.

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