Well, practically it distracts you from the job that you do, I have experienced that..... But as time goes by you get to know that you need to maintain a proper balance between your personal and professional life as if either of these is giving problems, both will get effected..... You should always maintaing a high profile professionally, now I know that its not so easy but in order to prove yourself that you can be good at work no matter what is going on in your personal life and its important too as you have to do your job for whcih you are getting paid...
The company is not going to listen to your personal problems as they hired you to do their job nothing else, I know if you are upset about something related to the person you are in a relationship, you are bound to be less concerned about what you are doing and then you commit mistakes, that is what I did... And if that person is at office then without any cause you will stay sharp and concerned about that person as whenever she/he talks to someone else you get a feeling what if something starts between them and this "what if" question is a very deadly thing as you are posessive about the person you love and that's good but the truth is that without your knowledge this concern takes the form of jealousy and then the problem starts..... I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.....
It is very important in a relationship specially if its inside office to give each other required amout of space as this helps in keeping a balanced and healthy relationship.....
You need to trust each other in an office environment...
That's it.....
The company is not going to listen to your personal problems as they hired you to do their job nothing else, I know if you are upset about something related to the person you are in a relationship, you are bound to be less concerned about what you are doing and then you commit mistakes, that is what I did... And if that person is at office then without any cause you will stay sharp and concerned about that person as whenever she/he talks to someone else you get a feeling what if something starts between them and this "what if" question is a very deadly thing as you are posessive about the person you love and that's good but the truth is that without your knowledge this concern takes the form of jealousy and then the problem starts..... I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.....
It is very important in a relationship specially if its inside office to give each other required amout of space as this helps in keeping a balanced and healthy relationship.....
You need to trust each other in an office environment...
That's it.....