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I Am Being Kicked Out Of My Home, What Should I Do?

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ashley nesler answered

I am 19 years old I live with my boyfriend my son junior and his dad n sister. Recently I am being kicked out because they accused me of stealing. I have a month to get out and apply for a section 8 hud program for a voucher so we can live with one another, legally they cannot kick me out until they take me off the contract. The section 8 helps with rent and currently I am on ebt which pays for food, they give 500 bucks every month on a certain day. I hope people in these situations are ok nobody should be put in cituations like this.

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Nadya Bean answered
I almost got kicked out of my home and I'm 14... In canada you can legally leave your family at 16, and apply for welfare and stuff, live on your own and control your life. So if your older than that then I would live on your own or with a friend. Friends are always there for you and stuff soo...
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Joan Doe answered
Okay, I'm 17 and I'm in the same boat as you.
Please note because whether I believe it or not it helps, even the slightest bit....That you are not alone in this matter.
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Anonymous answered
Remember, you're only really kicked out when the owner of the house calls the cops. And most parents hesitate to do that.
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kailon ross
kailon ross commented
Not mine
yvette jones
yvette jones commented
If your not 18 they cant kick you out unless you have a history of violent acts towards your parents. Apply for a university so that you can study and stay on campus. Antioh college is paying for students to come to their university. Check them out.
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Chelsea White answered
I'm 18 and I have 29 days left to live at home. My stepdad is cruel and manipulative towards my mother who is a stay at home mom to my little brother. She has no choice but for me to leave. It was sudden and unexpected. I don't do drugs and I am always working so its not like I could be home long enough for my parents to build a reason to despise me. I work 2 jobs as a waitress and a cashier in walking distance to my house (for which I am thankful). I don't have a car but I do have $1100 and a sense of adventure. I may get a tent and live in the woods near my jobs until I can afford a car. Or live with a friend 12 miles away and take my bike to work early in the morning when there arent any cars out. Once I can afford my car I will switch my jobs to night jobs and get a full time job at a company (my older family friend works at)during the day which will give me credibility for an apartment. I will soon then recieve benefits for college with this job. Get my degree, move up from there where I will be self established as well as self sufficient.
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yvette jones
yvette jones commented
I hope you take your little brother with you or you at least check up on him very closely. You never know if your stepdad might try to mess with him or cause him harm. Good luck. Stay with your friend and bike ride.
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I am being kicked out of my house aswell I have no job no money and no friends I can stay with I am also 17 howerver I looked on the internet and found a foster home I am going to look at tomorrow with a friend. Camping is stupid you will get cold and might not be able to catch any fish so getting a good meal is slim, also when it gets cold you will frees you need to find somewere warm to stay a friends house a family member or a friend are all good options but here www.barnardos.org.uk this is the URL for the foster home I am going to look at tomorrow I hope you can sort things out with your family but if your like me and its to late then I am really sorry to here that.

Good luck with everything
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I am 19 years old I live with my boyfriend my son junior and his dad and sister. Recently I am being kicked out because they accused me of stealing. I have a month to get out and apply for a section 8 hud program for a voucher so we can live with one another, legally they cannot kick me out until they take me off the contract. The section 8 helps with rent and currently I am on ebt which pays for food, they give 500 bucks every month on a certain day. I hope people in these situations are ok nobody should be put in situations like this. If you are starving or homeless you should go to the nearest DHS they help a lot.

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Anonymous answered
Man I'm 18 and getting kicked out in 2 weeks, but if your 13 you should try and get some courage to tell the police or phone a child abuse line. I am not living with my parents but I can go back to them whenever I want, Kinda lucky.
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Anonymous answered
I am 15 years old and my mother told me to pack up my stuff. I can't get a job in this small town, friends are hard to live with and relatives are dead. I have tried to suck up to her but she still says no. I am stuck. There is nothing I can do.
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yvette jones
yvette jones commented
If your living in the U.S. Your mother is responsible for you until your 18. Unless your being unruly.
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Anonymous answered

Two solutions- forget everything and try to say sorry to your parents and try to go cooperative till you get a job

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Tell your family they have no right to kick you out and just stay at your house! Hope that helps

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Well you should go to a friends hose that you really trust, and ask if you can crash thier for a while if the parents doesnt have a problem with that
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Anonymous answered
LOL that reponse about fishing and camping is way out the question, who wants to do that?!
Stay at a family members house till you can afford a place of your own then figure it out from there, go to school and get a job.
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It might be outta the question for most people i've been concidering for years now to camp in the wild with a gun n pole n see ho long i can take it, im 24 years old now and dealing with very bad choices i made in my teen years and my mother doesnt understand that dealing with passed addictions and depression can take time, so shes kickin me out broke no job n all so im concidering saying heck with the real world n see what happens in the wild on my own. If u have familly or friends great i do
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danshkiv huabib answered
Well if your a thrill seeker/adventurer you can always get a tent n sleep gear n live in the wild for a bit, I wouldnt suggest it unless you've thought about doin it before because its going to be hard but very rewarding. Or go on welfare they willpay first n last and give you cheque every month but its not really much to live on maybe 50-100 dollars of spending money each month and your rent so you can't really buy clothes food n accesories for the month they will also mention eating at your local soup kitchen. OR if you have a job and someone you get along with well and hes working maybe you should mention getting a place for 600 a month and then you guys are doin pretty good depending on what you both make for income... Or last resort a local shelter. I live in a crackhead town so my shelters are very nasty you would be sleepig on the ground next to street bums (literally) I know I been there and worked at them throught my teen years so if it ever came to that id rather live or die in the wild peace!
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amjed ali answered
Your age tells me that it is your parents who are asking you to leave the house.
You have not mentioned any reason why it is being done so.But you know it.Did you try to see the results of your behavior with them. You think you are right and they are wrong.You think they hate you and so they are kicking you out of the house.Remember no parents hate their own children.You are a part of them.An extension of them . Created by their own flesh and blood .They cannot hate their own selves. You must have done something again again to annoy them to this extent.Everyone makes mistakes but wise are those who learn from their mistakes.They do not want you to suffer by committing the same kind of mistakes.so they tell from right to wrong.

You also do not want people to annoy you by doing things that you do not like.Some people you can avoid easily and others you should think before making mistakes . In your part of the world human relationships are not very strong. Your people are producing best of the businessmen architects scientists etc etc.But what about good brothers,sons, fathers and mothers.A home is a very important part of the whole system in which you have to learn to share places things and most important love.This trains you to live in this planet with responsibility.You do all that for your own sake.You do not become a good human being by reaching the top of any profession but by being good to other fellow human beings.You may not see the reward immediately but reward there is definitely.
Every one wants to be liked by others and I am sure even you want that.You have to do some thing to be liked specially to those who are important to you.

I think the best and the easiest thing to do to get out this problem will be to go and say sorry and try your best to mend your ways,unless you have an ego problem.Which in fact is creating problem for you.May God make things easy for you and give you the courage to make in turn easy for others
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Anonymous commented
What if its too late to say sorry? What if they have given u enough chances and u still manageto mes up? What then?!
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Anonymous commented
Thank you. A lot of people who have written you comments back may not agree with you. But i do. You may not have been talking to me when you wrote that, but your words definitely did just now. I will take your advice, because it's the smartest thing to do.
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Anonymous commented
Just because she got kicked out doesnt mean she did anything. I'm under 20 and being kicked out of my house so my dad can make room for his girlfriends daughter. What did i do wrong there? You assume immediately, due to her age, that she is the one at fault. . Your ignorant in your response.

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