destiny mcneil answered question 10/9/2007 My Ex Is Still In Love With Me And Won't Leave Me Alone. He Wants To Ruin My Life Because He Can't Have Me And Doesnt Want Me To Be Happy Unlesss Its With Him. What Should I Do? Well just like sit down and talk and just tell him that you don't want to be with him and to leave you alown and that if he really loved you he would wont you to be happy even if it wasnt with him