Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva voted up Benjamin Coleman's answer

First of all, what on earth are you doing proposing on Facebook? A marriage is something that could last the rest of your life, so Facebook is the last place you should be doing that.

Secondly, leave her be. Don't pester for an answer or you're probably going to end up scaring her away (if she … Read more

Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva voted up Rath Keale's answer

A proposal is a social and legal commitment for marriage.  She is not giving you an answer because she is too young to know how to handle this situation and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.  She is a crush, which is not the same as a long-term relationship with an equal. 

Instead of proposing, … Read more

Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva voted up Sharron Prestcott's answer

If the answer was yes she would have told you already, she's trying not to embarrass you and to let you down easily.  She keeps telling you she's not ready which means she doesn't want to get married now, you're both 17 and in school, how would you support a family?

I think you should leave … Read more

Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva thanked Sharron Prestcott's answer

If the answer was yes she would have told you already, she's trying not to embarrass you and to let you down easily.  She keeps telling you she's not ready which means she doesn't want to get married now, you're both 17 and in school, how would you support a family?

I think you should leave … Read more

Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva voted up Danae Hitch's answer

Because she's shy and gentle, you do nothing. She knows how you feel because now you have told her. Keep continuing to talk to her as you normally do, but don't bring this up again. If she's as shy as you have made it seem, she needs time to think about what this means and … Read more

Nikhar Sachdeva
Nikhar Sachdeva thanked Danae Hitch's answer

Because she's shy and gentle, you do nothing. She knows how you feel because now you have told her. Keep continuing to talk to her as you normally do, but don't bring this up again. If she's as shy as you have made it seem, she needs time to think about what this means and … Read more